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Balance March 28, 2011

Inspiration: Former News Anchor and Writer Suzanne Rico

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A year ago Suzanne Rico lost her job as morning co-anchor on KCBS-TV (Channel 2). The reason? She was a victim of a major restructuring. “I went from news anchor to news nobody in the three minutes it took for new News Director Scott Diener to fire me.” Suzanne has been reinventing herself ever since that fateful day.  She and her husband jettisoned their comfortable life in Los Angeles and began a long, worldwide journey in search of a slower, simpler life.  Where will it end?  ”With two little kids and a 15 year old Labrador in tow, I’m either headed for enlightenment or an expedited check-in to the looney bin,” Suzanne says.   She is documenting their travels on a blog aptly titled Walking Papers. Here she talks about her new mobile office.


You recently went through a big change in your work life. Can you tell us about that? I went from working on deadline ALL the time to working on no deadline at all.  This, I would say, is the best thing that came with getting fired.  The worst is having no paycheck.  The second best thing about getting fired is not having to put on make-up, fancy clothes and heels in the pre-dawn hours–especially if I had been up with a sick kid all night and felt like the living dead.  The best lighting a major news network can provide will not make you look or feel good in these circumstances–not to mention allow you to form a cohesive sentence.  Now if I have a bad night, I can work in my pajamas and eat grilled cheese sandwiches with tomato soup (did I mention I no longer have a paycheck?).  The journey from well-paid anchor to un-paid blogger feels like a re-birth.  I am in the process of discovering who I am when I no longer have to squeeze myself into the confines dictated by a news job.  I have total choice.  I am my own boss.  When my children need me, I can put the computer to sleep.  This is liberating, fulfilling, exhilarating and scary as hell to a lifelong workaholic career woman.


With all the travel you are doing right now how do you keep yourself organized? When do you find time to write? And where do you do it? I write in the car, train or airplane as much as possible, but I take my computer anywhere that I think I will have five minutes to write.  I work between stints as referee, waitress, circus clown, Lego-builder, teacher, healer, and story-teller because my husband and I are all things to our children right now.  All the help I had back when I had a paying job is gone–and I don’t miss it.  I work late after the kids are asleep in whatever random room we are staying in, comforted that my family is there but relieved that, for the moment, I have the night to myself.  These stolen moments are enough.

Chaos has always made me jumpy.  This is likely because I lived such a structured life for so long (be one minute late to the set, and you miss a live broadcast).  I stay organized by being a minimalist.  I clean as I go, throw away everything that isn’t crucial to my work (and often find that I need that “trash” later), and every few days I empty the contents of my black back pack onto the floor and repack it, organizing snacks and sunscreen, power cords and Tylenol, home school supplies and vitamins.  Being on the road has its advantages, as you are limited in what you can bring by space.  I am forced to travel lean and when my work area gets messy (as it often did in the “micro-car” we rented for a three week road trip down Argentina’s rough Ruta 40)  I stop down and clean up.   With my computer, camera, power cord, adapter and a good power source (sometimes difficult to find!), I have all I need.


What piece of technology besides your laptop are you most attached to? My husband is my second favorite technological tool.  He’s like Rain-Man in that he can learn anything and has this vast ability to retain information.  I am technologically challenged, so he is my go-to guy when something goes haywire with my computer or iPhone.  He says he has to stop enabling me so that I learn for myself, but I figure it’s easier just to make sure we never get divorced.  If I had to pick a real thing, I would say my iPhone.  I haven’t made one call on it in months, but I use it to jot down thoughts and often take it with me on my runs, so that when an idea hits, I can record it in a voice memo.  Plus, it holds my favorite photos.  Do I sound like a commercial for Apple?


What inspires you? My children make me laugh and cry–two emotions that always provide inspiration.  When my three year old looks at the vast African sky and sighs, “Look at all the colors!”, I see the world through his eyes and my problems seem small and solvable.  When that same exhausted kid has a melt down as we are being questioned by a stern customs agent (a long line of annoyed travelers staring as I wrestle him off the ground) I try to breathe and know that parents everywhere have walked in my shoes.  Bad or good, my children provide my best material.

Lately, a beautifully constructed sentence also inspires me.  A well-written sentence is like a house design that blows you away with its perfection, functionality and originality.  Ever since I changed my life a year ago, I have been learning the art of writing.  I now read much more slowly, inspired by each lovely line.  It is also inspiring to have something suddenly click in my own writing–the invigorating moment that my thoughts take form and the story comes together.  I don’t know where this new love of travel and writing will take me, but the ride has been awesome so far.  I know I am incredibly lucky to have this opportunity to walk new paths and try not to take it for granted.

Comments (13)

While it seems like a nice story and I applaud Suzanne’s ability to be independent (the story feels like a “how can I drop everything and still survive story”) — she mentioned “I don’t have a paycheck” twice, but in no way can I imagine she is able to do what she does without a healthy income. Clearly plane trips and rental cars and hotels (or places to stay, food for her and her family, fuel, etc. etc. are not free). So, with that in mind, can you better enlighten us on how she managed to do all these things?

I feel even more discouraged than encouraged knowing that there is no possible way someone can survive with as rich a life as you describe less any sort of means to pay for it.

I would love to change my life (just drop everything I have and go for it)… and I feel I have the courage for everything but lacking the ability to eat, have a warm roof over my head, and travel somewhere to enrich myself, other than the street corner to ask someone for more money to make it through the next day.

– saddened :(

This is a great question and I will let Suzanne respond but thank you for the comment.

As mentioned before, I think it’s really inspiring to be able to move past previously established personal and professional confines to establish a new life.

The profile leads me to ask more questions, however, like “How and when are the kids going to school,” “How long do you plan to roam like this” and “What’s next – for the kids and husband?”

This economy has really made things difficult for most everyone but the top x%, but I just have a hard time seeing this journey as anything other than a selfish pursuit, to be honest. Her husband lost her job three years ago – what would’ve happened if he would’ve then and there decided *he* wanted to travel the world like a nomad?

And even more disconcerting – Suzanne mentioned that she doesn’t feel she possesses the skills to move into a new job other than anchoring and reporting. How does this journey change that?

If in three years, her husband couldn’t find a new career, what are the chances she’ll find a way to make herself more marketable just because she decided to travel across the globe?

I like the story, I like the idea – it’s great if you’re Jack Kerouac. Not so great if you’re a family of four trying to make ends meet.

Hi, it’s Suzanne. It makes me sad that you feel sad, and trapped in a life that is not fulfilling. I know the feeling. As for being able to take this journey without having an income, what I can tell you is that I worked for many years, saved as much as I could, and spent as wisely as possible so that if the day came where I needed room to figure things out, I could take it. I know I am lucky to have this gift. I was in a well paid job for many years, I have the total support of friends and family, and my husband and I try to make smart decisions about where we spend (obviously transportation, food and board are necessities) and where we don’t. What I feel strongly about is that this life change I am experiencing is not about traveling or running away–it’s about finding a new side of myself and searching for a way of life that makes more sense to me (emotionally, creatively, financially) now that I am in my mid-40′s with two little kids to take into consideration. I did not want to spend another ten or twenty years working in what had become, for me, an unfulfilling career just because it provided a paycheck. So, I decided to, as you put it, “go for it” and see what else is out there. I am not brave–remember I got fired–I didn’t quit because I was chicken. But CBS gave me the kick off the cliff that I needed It remains to be seen how it will all work out, and you can read about the process of discovery on my blog, but I can tell you I am not sorry I took the chance to change. I hope you are able to change whatever it is in your life that is dragging you down. Remember, this does not have to be done with travel–there are many paths to a better place and we all walk them differently. Sorry for any typos here, but I can only send email with my I-Phone right now and it is late where I am!
Best,
Suzanne

Hi Ivan
I’ve sent Suzanne your comment. She can only reply sporadically via her iPhone right now – so we’ll have to wait a bit for her response. I will post it as soon as it comes through.
C

Ivan,
I’m homeschooling. I’m writing. I’m trying to find my way into my next phase of life like many others. I don’t hold myself up as some example of a hero, just a person who decided to try to deal with a crisis in a positive way instead of letting it drag me into depression and self doubt. I wish I had all the answers. As for this being a selfish journey–I will have to think about that. It certainly is time that I am taking for myself, something I have never been very good at. Selfish has such bad connotations, but maybe you are right. But my children are happy. We are discovering really cool things about ourselves and the world. And as for the future, I’m trying to take it day by day. Thanks for giving me food for thought.
Best,
Suzanne

Lots of criticism raining down on a wonderful once in a lifetime adventure. Who cares how they are affording it. If you want to do this with your family scale it down and make it fit your lifestyle and budget.
As for the boys, anyone can see that Suzanne and her husband love their children and would never miss an opportunity to educate them. In fact let’s talk culture immersion, geography and history for starters.

Few out of the box thinkers and escape criticism.
Love reading about your adventures Suzanne, be
safe.

Ann

Few out of the box thinkers escape criticism. Sorry for the miss type.

Suzanne -
Thanks so much for replying. I appreciate your insight and candor.
I hope that this time with your family brings you amazing memories and moments that you would never see.

I wish you the best of luck, I really do. I hope that your boys and the family become stronger through these experiences and that all the dots connect at the end.

I was hoping Suzanne would strike a chord Lifework readers. Her story moved me when I discovered her blog and I was so thrilled when she agreed to share it with us. I think sometimes we get trapped in our way of doing things and it takes losing our job to kick us into a new way of looking at our life. I also thought there may be more than a few readers out there who have experienced job loss in much the same way Suzanne had and perhaps this story would give them a bit of hope. I haven’t had that experience but I worked at a newspaper for many years and watched so many of my peers fall under the downsizing axe.

And now I’m off to make an afternoon snack for my 5 year old. I’m also juggling part-time work and raising my kids!
C

Dear Mrs. Rico

Sorry to see you go!!!! I was wondering where were you cause I didn’t see you for quite a while .CBS did an awful thing in firing you. Have you consider Sueing CBS??? hope you are safe and happy have a WONDERFUL Life!!!! Suzanne and take care.

Love from
Charles V.
a fan from Rialto,CA

Hi Suzanna,
I’m happy that you are traveling and experiencing life with your family in a way that many of us only fantasized of. I miss watching you on Channel 2 with Kent Shocknek. You made the show in my opinion. Hopefully when the traveling bug leaves you in the middle of the night, you’ll consider returning to your strength. News writing and reporting. Your family will always be with you. I retired from a long career in law enforcement 6-years ago. I planned on traveling the world and experiencing new adventures. I still want to do all that but I remarried before I retired and am now raising a 4-years-old and 7-year-old. I still play golf, hike, run, travel to Catalina and pretend I’m a pirate. But, the truth is, I really enjoy spending time with my family and knowing that I have the financial resources to take care of all their needs and safety until they become adults and seek their own path.
Take care Suzanne,
Ray Rueda

I love what you are doing and your blog. You are a true spirit that brings enlightenment to all. I don’t watch the news much because it’s all celebrity crap but I’m glad you got out. Your recent blog entry on skid row is fantastic and graphic. Just started reading your stuff on Friday and I’m very happy. You write very well. Good luck and God speed. :)

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