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Balance, Design February 22, 2011

Project: Desk

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Part 2 – Decluttering the Surface

The background: My desk has historically been an impending avalanche. The problem is not only that there is stuff piled on stuff, but I don’t know what to do with the stuff once I want to put it away. Here’s last week’s post.


Since I embarked on Project: Desk a week ago I started noticing some things about myself. Which are not all that attractive. One thing is that I don’t have good follow-through on tasks. Or maybe more accurately, I follow-through, but not in chronological – or even logical — order. So I’ll start an email, then go make a cup of chai, then pick up the living room, and then go back to the email.  My desk is in between the living room and the kitchen, so all kinds of things end up on it while I’m distracted by the next item on the to-do list.

This happens in the kitchen too. The other night, surrounded by salad greens on the floor and all over the counter, I pointed out my realization to my husband, Steve. “Why do you think I call you Edward Scissorhands?”

A change in my behavior that will lead to my redemption. The union of thought and action will help me overcome this chronic disorganization, which puts me in a bad mood and makes me too stressed out to go to yoga.

I learned two major things this week. The first – great advice came in from comments on the first blog entry — is about shredding and tossing things you don’t need. I had dinner with my friend Joanna, who is basically perfect. She’s a brown-eyed blonde beauty, a supersmart former corporate VP-turned-shrink. She has a rich spiritual life and laughs at my jokes and is probably one of the best advice-givers I know.  But the annoying thing is that she is also very well organized. She told me, as she gripped a cilantro-ginger shrimp with her chopsticks, that she normally just puts each thing in its place  when it comes through. She doesn’t even think about it. When she’s too busy, she has everything in a grocery bag that she can stash and then tackles it on Sunday.

The other thing I learned is that I don’t mind cleaning up as long as I have a little reward for myself. I only watch two TV shows, 30 Rock and The Office, which happily, are available online. So I’ve made a new rule: While I’m cleaning my desk off, I absolutely must also be watching something I enjoy. Or the other way around.

So today I’m sitting at my newly clean desk, with some tulips and a Valentine’s Day card in the feng shui relationship area. I have a lot more to do. Empty out drawers. Get rid of adaptors for long-gone electronics. Sort through a giant redwood tree’s worth of clean paper and envelopes.  Figure out where to store the books I need to read and review for 40licious so they don’t get all mixed in with my Latin primer from college. Why am I keeping a Latin primer from college anyway? That is another story that involves books as a cultural shorthand to a person.

What I’m realizing is that I don’t have to do it all in one day. If I break Project: Desk up into phases and really think about what’s next and why, chances are I’ll make some changes that really work.

PS – In case you were wondering, frēti fidē tuā nōn timēbimus means “Relying on your trustworthiness, we shall not fear.”

Comments (10)

Looking very tidy and full of character. It looks like YOUR space. Nice work!

Is your writing coming more easily?

That’s a good question…is it easier working in the space now your desk is clear?

Thanks, YES I am much more motivated to work without the distraction of stuff I have to deal with staring me in the face. I do have a long way to go, as we worked through tax stuff yesterday and I couldn’t find a crucial piece of information I was looking for. So now the mission: each thing in its place.

It has taken me 74 years to learn to put things away when I finish them, into a labeled folder. I try to shred as I go (as long as I am in the office where the shredder is) Books!!!That’s my downfall. I have stacks of books, shelves of books, folders of How To books, today’s reading book, my Kindle (which I haven’t learned to use yet). I am the kind of person who thinks the written word is priceless. I have now learned to stand over the wastebasket when I sort the mail, put the “to pay” bills on my side table. Isn’t that good? The problem is my side table now has stacks of “to do” things on it that used to be on my desk. I have a husband who thinks anything on a horizontal surface is “clutter”. Makes no difference if it is “decor”. All is clutter. This is a battle that has gone on for 54 years. I don’t think it will end soon.

I’m with you on the books, GGMIL (full disclosure: this is my mother-in-law). I feel like a little bit of my identity will go away if I get rid of the books. Or what if I really had an inescapable urge to read the Orestia? Which has not happened since college, but still, the idea of one day updating it as a modern screenplay is still attractive.

Thank you for reading, GG and Stephanie. And Cerentha, but you have to as you are my editor.

My Mom used to say the sate of your (room.. or fill in the blank) reveals the state of your mind.

ps: is that 30 rock ‘spinster’ episode?

Sounds like you need to revisit the whole Feng Shui thing.

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